Kindergarten: Ready or Not--Here They Come!
by Roberta Shreve
Minnesota State University - Moorhead
Moorhead, MN

With the onset of spring, you may be approached by the parents wondering if their child is ready for kindergarten. Is he smart enough, big enough, quiet enough, talkative enough, or adequate in a multitude of other ways?

What a dilemma! So much seems to be at stake. You don't want children to be unhappy because they are in a setting that doesn't meet their needs, whether it is kindergarten or preschool. You worry about how children will feel if their friends get on the bus to attend "big kids school" and they are left behind. However, you also worry about what will happen if they are expected to fit into a classroom that may not be ready for them.

The National Association for the Education of Young Children Position Statement on School Readiness states, "It is the responsibility of schools to meet the needs of children as they enter and to provide whatever services are needed. . . to help each child reach his or her fullest potential." Kindergarten programs should be ready to provide a developmentally appropriate curriculum that meets the needs of any child enrolled in school. NAEYC indicates that the only legal and ethical measure for accepting children into school is whether they have reached the legal age for school entry.

Is there harm in encouraging parents to hold their children back? Isn't this a way of giving them a "gift of time?" Graue notes that this "gift" is actually a "theft" of the child's opportunities to be a part of a group and of the teacher's responsibility for making a place for the child. When a child is held back, we are "mistaking variability for deficit."

The range of ages within a kindergarten classroom is frequently more than two years, with developmental differences of a much greater range. In order to challenge the older children, curriculum needs to become more appropriate for first grade than for kindergarten, leaving even more children to struggle with inappropriate expectations. By sending children to school according to their chronological age, we make it more possible for teachers to meet the needs of all of the children in the classroom.

However, the greatest potential danger of making children wait to attend kindergarten lies in the lowering of the parents expectations for their children. As parents begin to view their children as less capable, these expectations are transferred to the children. This is a very serious concern since parental expectations are the most powerful predictor of children's later school success.

Encourage parents to send their children to kindergarten. Even children with developmental delays can benefit because of the special services they may possibly receive from the school system. Help parents become advocates for their children instead of protectors! Assist them in arranging a visit to kindergarten. If there are several classrooms, suggest they visit all of them and then request that their child be assigned to the teacher they feel is the best match. Recommend that they keep up regular communication with the teacher and ask what is expected of their child.

Here are some suggestions for parents:

Suggestions for Providers

Build language skills through daily informal activities:

Your goal is to send children to school loving books and language. This will increase their likelihood for being successful in an academic setting. Become an advocate for young children by supporting parents.

References

Graue, M. E. (1998, March). What's wrong with Edward the Unready? Our responsibility for readiness. Young Children, 53(2), 12-16.

NAEYC. (1990). NAEYC position statement on school readiness. Young Children, 46(1), 21-23.

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